New Beginnings

I have decided that after 2 and a half years of almost constant bickering between Chris and I needs to stop. I have taken it upon myself to help make things between us better.

Chris has decided that he wants to make a contract saying that he will not eat out or drink sodas. He's determined to lose weight. I support him in this and rather than argue about stupid things I have decided to help him along the way.

Sunday night I asked him to wash the dishes before he went to bed....as of yesterday afternoon they were still not done. Rather than argue with him I did the dishes myself and didn't complain. Nothing good ever comes from an arguement. Also, this morning I made his lunch for work because I know that if he wants to get on the right path he needs some guidance. I doubt he'll make himself get up earlier every morning to make lunch. I figure if I am up making my lunch for work I might as well make his too. Saves effort I guess.

Anyways, I'm hoping all my hard work doesn't go in vain. I really love Chris and I want to have a future with him; one without arguements. I know time will tell if things eventually work out. I don't want to feel like I'm giving up on standing my ground but I'd rather do a little extra now and then rather than bicker about it.